might i suggest plentyoffish.com. online dating is not taboo like it once was. you'll ba able to build a great start without the physical aspect of your disability. sweep her off her feet online and she won't care about your crutches.
I don't understand this. It's actually something that has been getting to me more than ever, but at the same time, it hasn't been getting to me.
I feel as if EVERYONE around me, is in a relationship. To see all these guys with girls that are actually good girls, really confuses me. Reason being, these guys that are able to get into a relationship with such wholesome women, seem like such scum of the earth.
These jerkoff of guys are giving they're girlfriends a hard time in so many aspects. AND THESE GIRLS STICK AROUND!wtf?
I feel as if I'm an all around good guy. I'm a hard worker, I have goals and determination, I'm doing great in college, I make my own living and support my self pretty much, I have a couple business ventures I'm getting off the ground, I'm a loyal person, an honest person, with values and morals. And I have been told i'm quite the looker, although, I can vouch for average at best. But I can't remember the last time I even had a relationship.
Now, heres where it mind fucks me at times. I have a disability. I'm not paralyzed or anything. I walk with crutches, and can do pretty much what an able bodied person can do. I'm normally a very strong minded individual, without having the need for outside support for anything. I deal with things in a very laid back manner. I don't show my emotions to anyone. If i feel down about situations of high caliber, I won't express them to any body. Not even my best friend.
Is it my disability that is really handicapping me to find love? Have women nowdays become so shallow, they only see that?
I need some outside thoughts on this.
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I'm so adaptable to you, like a shadow appears I too am able to follow you. Your thoughts and the actions that reflect these thoughts are easily read to me, yet I don't feel you beneath me but interesting... How I have a connection to you is remarkable but what are you to me... more? You feel it, the feeling with both share the understanding isn't.
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not all girls are shallow, you'll find someone - don't worry =] x
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Me again....Are women shallow? Maybe they are when they are young. Love the "bad boys" but as they mature they look for someone who will treat them right. There's nothing wrong with you and just because you walk with crutches...well, that will mean nothing to the person who falls in love with you. Laugh, life is good..you'll see.
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It's not you! Smile! Everyone likes being around someone who smiles and laughs. Right now think about your education...do well! Your time will come...trust me. Never give up but don't dwell on it. Be honest with whoever you get involved with....that's the most important thing I can suggest. All the best to you. Be happy!!!
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All women are shallow. All they care about is money and how big your penise is.
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Not all women are shallow, I promise. If it seems that way, you are surrounding yourself with the wrong type of girl! Be a little more open with people, let them see a bit more of who you are, and you may find that that is what they will find most attractive. You can't expect someone to fall for you if they can't even see who you are. I have faith