If you really liked me, you would actually make an effort to see me or talk to me. I know you're busy, but I also know, for a fact, that you have lots of spare time as well. If you're just leading me on, you need to tell me. And I'm still pissed at you for telling me you were going to take me to see a movie, and then calling me the next day about where it was playing, and then proceeding to go with someone else. You are a douche.
don't wait around for someone like that. Ask him for sure where you two stand, and then take it at that. Let him know you've got your own stuff to do, also. You're worth more. :) Don't settle.